{"id":132982,"date":"2021-08-04T17:29:27","date_gmt":"2021-08-04T17:29:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/blog\/?p=132982"},"modified":"2021-09-22T16:06:31","modified_gmt":"2021-09-22T16:06:31","slug":"conversation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/massage-therapist\/conversation\/","title":{"rendered":"Massage Therapists and Dealing With Difficult People"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>CLIENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was not told about the tool the therapist used until I arrived for my appointment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MY RESPONSE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While this statement is true the intake process prior to the massage also includes gaining permission for using both non-allergenic coconut oil and the tool I use during the massage.&nbsp; This takes place with each new client that I work with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>NOTE:&nbsp; You can read through other reviews and see that the results of the resource I use are phenominal in most cases including this one which I will further explain in a moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CLIENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It seemed to work during this session&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MY RESPONSE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, it was working and I check in with my clients throughout the session to make sure that it continues to work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CLIENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230; however immediately following, I noticed my pain level increasing, I couldn\u2019t breathe and I was under extreme duress crying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MY RESPONSE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This was my first indication of trouble which I have not witnessed with any other client.&nbsp; I began to take proper action accordingly as will be revealed ahead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CLIENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He had to get the chiropractor to lodge my ribs back in place So I could breathe again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MY RESPONSE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My professional expertise allows me to work with muscles.&nbsp; That&#8217;s my speciality.&nbsp; As a muscle releases if a rib is out it is going to cause muscle grabbing which is exactly what happened.&nbsp; This is the first time in 3 years that I have witnessed this result.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Had their not been a bone issue I would not have secured help from the Chiropractor.&nbsp; Once things turned to bone I realized it was out of scope with my practice and immediately turned to expertise that is beyond my understanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CLIENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve never experienced anything like this massage before And I get at least six massages a year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MY RESPONSE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, the massages that I provide are more focused on Trigger Point within a Deep Tissue mindset than other Therapists.&nbsp; This is a correct statement and one which is getting rave reviews from 95% of all that I work with.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CLIENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The masseuse rarely used his hands and used a vibrating tool instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MY RESPONSE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I do not agree with this statement though I can appreciate the clients persepective.&nbsp; As the tool that is being referenced was gaining such great results, I did use what appeared to me to be working best to what I believed was the best interest of the clients requirements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CLIENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I asked where his training was and he was closed about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MY RESPONSE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The only reason I would not answer such a question is if I did not hear it.&nbsp; Not hard to imagine since much of the massage is spent faced down into a circular pillow that is designed for the purposes of massage therapy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For the record, I was trained at Black Hills Health and Education in Hermosa, SD.&nbsp; Though I have taken other classes since the training that was necessary for me to receive my license.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CLIENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I will not go back and I do not recommend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MY RESPONSE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It should be noted that this session took place during the time of increased biking due to the Sturgis rally that happens here.&nbsp; It should both be noted and considered accordingly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CLIENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I rated professionalism low because he was not forthcoming on his training<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MY RESPONSE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have already addressed this concern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CLIENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and he was trying to sell me another appointment<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MY RESPONSE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After seeing the results of the first massage I knew based on the clients circumstances that a follow up massage would be a good idea.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I was making this suggestion to a client who was exhibiting this statement:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;It seemed to work during this session&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But when the bone began to grab and the client was increasingly exhibiting the results thereof I ensured the clients comfort and went for help that was beyond the scope of my practice instead.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CLIENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>as I was increasingly becoming distressed with pain and crying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MY RESPONSE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At this point my recommendation had stopped and I was waiting for the Chiropractor to arrive instead.&nbsp; When he did I remained present to provide any type of assistance that I possibly could which at this point was minimal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After the event ended I sought counsel of the Chiropractor who advised me that their was little to nothing that I could have done differently because as the muscles were relaxed the bone became aware of its displacement and issues esculated accordingly.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CLIENT I was not told about the tool the therapist used until I arrived for my appointment. MY RESPONSE While this statement is true the intake process prior to the massage also includes gaining permission for using both non-allergenic coconut oil and the tool I use during the massage.&nbsp; This takes place with each new [&#8230;]<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"btn btn-secondary understrap-read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/massage-therapist\/conversation\/\">Read More&#8230;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> from Massage Therapists and Dealing With Difficult People<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-132982","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-massage-therapist"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132982","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=132982"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132982\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":133281,"href":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132982\/revisions\/133281"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=132982"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=132982"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gracefultouch.org\/latest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=132982"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}